Had the chance to meet Ray several times in D div. Always a kind and human approach. My sincere condolences to the family.

We are so sorry to hear of your loss Brenda. Ray always made us smile and we so enjoyed spending time with you both while you were living in in Grande Prairie. Sending big hugs.

To Brenda, family, friends and the RCMP family members in grief...

Our deepest, warmest heartfelt condolences and sympathies in your loss.

Keep in mind there is no expiry date on love and memories.

Always remember Ray's passion and his spirit will remain in your lives for an eternity.

Our thoughts and prayers are with you during this tumultuous grieving and healing period.

To Brenda, family and friends. My deepest condolences for your loss and know that my positive thoughts are with you during this very difficult time. May your cherished memories brighten each day moving forward to help you heal.

I thank Ray for the wonderful career and amazing life-long friends we have made along the way. He was my recruiting interviewer. From his stoic posture and presemce, to the office putting green and iconic painting, pride was at his core. You have both had immense impacts and influence on the organization we chose to cherish. I hope you continue to find comfort, support, and peace in the days, months and years to come.

In April 1990, I was privileged to transfer to the Depot Law Unit where I joined an outstanding group of colleagues: Sandy Mahon, Bob Kennedy, Pat Kamenka and Ray. Each of us loved our work, the joy of seeing the Recruits’ lights come on when they understood what we were teaching (yes, it was a long time ago when Recruits were Recruits, not Cadets) and our individual personalities meshed in a way that one can only hope for, yet not always realize. Ray was a big force in that Unit, accomplishing that by being quiet & steady, and as many on this page have remarked, quick-witted. And he was kind. Really kind. We worked out a lot of stuff in the basement during winter or out the back door of the Academic building in summer, smoking during breaks….Ray sucking on his pipe and me with a Player’s Extra Light cigarette (or two!). Our paths intersected for a number of years and I admired and respected him very much. He will be so missed by his family. Brenda, I’m so sorry for the time you won’t have with Ray and I know he will be with you all the way.

Dear Brenda and family, to quote a Great Chief that walked Turtle Island..........."May the stars carry your sadness away, may the flowers fill your heart with beauty, may hope forever wipe away your tears and above all, may silence make you strong".

Nia:wen for your service Ray, as a protector of the people.

My deepest condolences and my heartfelt sympathies to you Brenda and the entire family. May you cherish and find comfort in all the special memories shared with Ray.

Our thoughts and condolences to Ray's nearest and dearest. When someone is so well loved and treasured, memories of them become a beloved treasure. Wishing you many special memories to buoy your spirits and lift your hearts in these difficult days. Rest in peace, Ray. Wishing you the greenest of greens. Enjoy the 19th hole.

Some of my fondest memories of Depot involve Ray......and my most memorable road trip in the RCMP was to the Czech Republic with Ray and two other colleagues. The countless hours we spent together afforded me the opportunity to get to know Ray on a different level. His sense of humour was infectious and his passion for whatever he did was inspiring. I am thankful that I had the opportunity to speak with Ray just before Christmas to simply get caught up and to reminisce about that trip and Depot days.

While working in the staffing and personnel units and trying to accommodate every members wishes, he would always joke saying that on his headstone he would have the simple engraving "suitably posted". Not only did it attest to his dry sense of humour, it spoke to his approach to life and his career.....not to overthink things, to look at the positive side, and to live for the day.

We will cherish all the positive memories as we reflect on Ray's life...

To Brenda and all Ray's family.....may your memories of him live on and we offer our condolences.

Roger and Deborah Ann

My deepest condolences to Brenda and family. I worked with Ray at Depot Div for many years, but my favorite memory of Ray was at the Depot Golf Tournament held at the Royal Regina. Ray was in a foursome just in front of us with his pipe going hard with a huge smile on his face. He was enjoying life and it impacted me. May Ray rest in peace.

My thoughts and prayers are with Brenda and the families. Only time will help you to get through this unimaginable loss. While I never had the opportunity to meet Ray, I have heard how dedicated he was to the RCMP and his family. My sincere condolences.

Dear Brenda and all of Ray’s family, we were very sad to hear of Ray’s passing. I have been reflecting on all the great times that I had working with Ray. He was funny, kind and inclusive and created spectacular team building exercises! Ray was one of a kind and will be missed.

As is so evident from these many condolences, Ray’s loss will be felt by many, a reach extending well beyond the Gauthier and Lucki families. Ray was one of my (favourite) instructors at Depot, a standout even in an impressive cadre. Respectful, supportive, progressive and amusing, he was to me a true professional with a genuine interest in the recruits and a man of, but not consumed by, the RCMP. I was fortunate to have met him. May the certainty that he was such a positive influence on so many be some comfort to his family in a truly difficult time.

Brenda and Gauthier Family, My time working at Depot were the years I enjoyed most during my career. Ray’s gentle kindness was always present at times we were dealing with some very concerning staffing issues. He was very compassionate and this helped me immensely. Cherish all the memories and thank you Ray for your guidance and human gentile nature.

I first met Ray in 1988 or 1989 before I joined the RCMP while he was posted in Virden. He had such a welcoming smile. In 1990 I joined the RCMP and he was one of my law instructors. It was nice to see a familiar face.

May memories comfort you at this difficult time.

I first met Ray on course at the CPcollege and stayed in touch over the years my condolences to his family…RIP….

Brenda and Family,

We are truly sadden by Ray's passing. Our thoughts and prayers are for you all during this time of sorrow. He certainly touched many others throughout his life and created cherished memories for you and your family to share. Our condolences.

On behalf of the Veterans Review and Appeal Board, please accept our most sincere condolences. Several current and former Board Members have fond memories of their time with Ray, and will always remember him for his sense of humour, cleverness and service to Canada.

Brenda, Joanne, Danielle & Famillies; Our thoughts are with each of you during this very difficult time. Ray was a good friend and colleague. He will be missed by us all but memories of him will never fade. Rest in peace mon ami.

You and your family are in our thoughts and prayers Brenda at this very sad time. May the coming days and weeks bring you many more smiles than tears when you are surrounded by loving memories.

I did not know Ray well but in the times I met him, his gentle nature and sense of humor were evident. I was saddened by the news of his passing and extend my deepest condolences to Brenda and family.

We had the pleasure of having Ray as an instructor at Depot. He was a positive influence and inspired us to do better. He had a great sense of humor which was appreciated during challenging training days. He treated everyone with dignity and respect especially recruits. Our condolences to Brenda and family.

Our thoughts are with you Brenda and family during this difficult time.

Dear Brenda and the Gauthier family, we were in total shock to hear of Ray’s passing. We will always remember his kindness and sincerity. May he rest in eternal peace!

I'm so terribly sorry to hear of Ray's passing. He was my law instructor at Depot - I really admired his teaching ability and his humor. He once explained something using a Venn diagram that I was having trouble absorbing. I asked if he would mind explaining it another way....he replaced the circles with squares - full of witt! Loved his company and enjoyed sharing a couple of quality hours with him at my grad dinner. Many condolences to all his family and friends. He was one of the best! He will be missed.

Brenda & family: Words cannot adequately convey the sadness felt upon learning of Ray’s passing. May your knowing from across the miles of our caring and appreciation for all you have done to better our lives ease the burden of grief going forward.

Kamloops Division send our condolences to Brenda and family.

Sorry to hear of Ray's passing. I had the pleasure of working for and with Ray in "D" Staffing. Knowledgeable & approachable, Ray's easy going manner made me and everyone around him comfortable.

"A Member's Member".

Our thoughts are with Brenda & family.

Our deepest sympathies to you Brenda and all of Ray's family. We know your hearts are filled with sorrow but in time the happiest of memories will take over. When we think of Ray, we see that pipe and the many woodworking projects he took on. For Ray, it was never really the destination but all about the journey. He was respected and will be missed by all who knew him.

I remember with fondness the times Ray served the LG as an Aide-de-Camp, and how he always had that twinkle in his eye. Whenever he was with you, Brenda, that twinkle was for you. He was strong and so charming. Sending thoughts and love. I hope you can feel the love that surrounds you and your family.

Have known Ray from both "D" Division and also when instructing at Depot. He was a very friendly character - always had time for a chat. He has left us too soon. Condolences to to Brenda and all the family.

I remember Ray best when he and Brenda transferred from Depot to Manitoba, and Ray became i/c Staffing. The team got along well. My favourite memories were when I visited their home in Landmark and Ray showed off his most recent carpentry project. Furniture, toys for grandchildren, little inventions, sometimes a pile of sawdust. He could do anything, and would show them off with a shy smile, like a parent displaying a new baby.

Remembering the Dining In Regimental Dinner at NHQ prior to Covid where we discussed our careers and families. Brenda, our thoughts and prayers are with you and your family. We and your extended family (Force) are with you and yours at this time.

Sincere concolences and deepest sympathy in this difficult time.

Also on behalf of the Calgary RCMP vets association

I worked with Ray in Churchill in the 70’s and our paths crossed many times after that. A great guy with a kind and sincere manner combined with a marvellous sense of humour, I can’t recall ever having an exchange with him that did not involve laughter. My sincere condolences to his family

Ray was one of my instructors at Depot. He was a gifted teacher who took the time to really get to know recruits and bring out the best in us. My thoughts are with you and your family.

Brenda, our sincere condolences on Ray’s passing. May the comfort of your memories of him and your life together get you through the sad and difficult times ahead. You are in our thoughts. Nic &Paula Dionne

Brenda and family, so sorry to hear about your loss Condolences to you and your families 🥲🙏

In 1998 I first met Ray and Brenda when a group from Kentucky's Police Academy traveled to Depot to observe the style of training uses by R.C.M.P. The following year I was chosen to be an exchange instructor for a six-month period. Ray and Brenda were my welcome wagon and to help me adjust to the R.C.M.P. society. A wonderful friendship started, and I followed them through their travels and careers. I have always thought of my time at Depot to be a highlight of my career, because of the people. My sincere condolences to Brenda and my door is always open. It's warmer here!

"Death leaves a heartache

no one can heal but

Love leaves a memory

that no one can steal." Brenda and families: we hope your treasured memories and sharing of them help to console at this very sad time. We are thinking of you and send our deepest condolences.

Our deepest sympathies go out to you my friend and to your family on the loss of Ray. I recall fond memories of him and you , over the years from Depot, from Regina and from Manitoba. And may those wonderful memories you have of your life together provide comfort and peace during this difficult time. Take care and know you are not alone in this time of grieving.

Worked with Ray for several years in Virden. He was always up beat & brought a smile to your face when he walked into the office. He was also there in a clinch with you when you needed something. Lynda & I are shocked at Ray’s sudden & untimely passing Our sincere condolences go out to Brenda & the entire family.

Thank you Ray for being a great boss, mentor and friend. Brenda and Gauthier families may the grief within your hearts be soon replaced by all the wonderful memories held within each of you. We will remember them.

Please accept our sincere condolences. Ray was truly a nice guy. He will be missed.

Our deepest sympathies to you Brenda and the entire Gauthier family. May your happy memories bring you comfort during this difficult time.

Our condolences to Brenda and Family. I enjoyed Ray’s stories of places he worked. Every breakfast I had with Ray contained a story or two that I truly enjoyed. Such an interesting person to spend time with.

We have many happy memories of our time together with Ray and Brenda. Ray had a great sense of humour and was a true gentleman. He will be missed by all who knew him. Our sincere condolences to Brenda and the family.

Our deepest condolences to Brenda and family. Ray was a great guy and friend who could always be counted upon for a good laugh and great stories. Will always cherish our time teaching together at Depot. Ray will be sorely missed by all who knew him. May he rest in peace.

Our condolences to Brenda, Danielle, Joanne and their families. We were shocked and sadden to learn of Ray’s passing. I had the pleasure to work with Ray in Virden. He was a great person with an infectious smile and laugh. We had many great times together. RIP my friend

Brenda, Ken and I were deeply saddened to learn of Ray’s passing. We hope the many wonderful memories you have of your life together with provide some solace and keep him close in the days and weeks ahead.

Sorry to hear of Ray's passing. I had the pleasure of working with Ray in Regina, where his down to earth approach could always be depended upon. Our thoughts are with you, Brenda, and all of your family.

Dear Brenda and family. My heavy heart is with you all. I will never forget the good times with Ray, starting when he played practical jokes on incoming facilitators. His smile was contagious and his demeanour always put everyone around him in a better mood. Know that Ray’s legacy lives on in his family and with all of us that were fortunate to cross paths with him.

Condolences to Brenda and family. I remember Ray, his calm demeanour and thoughtful presence, somewhat supported by the presence of his pipe, and always thought what a good complement he and Brenda were to each other. We’re very sorry to hear of his passing. Know that we are thinking of you Brenda.

Katherine and I are so very sad to learn of Ray's passing. We have such good memories of our time with Ray and Brenda and I will always remember the times I enjoyed working together Ray at Depot. His wit will always be remembered and we offer our condolences to Brenda and the family.

Our deepest condolences in the loss of your loved one, Brenda. . We met Ray only briefly but found him very pleasant and personable. May he rest in peace and May God help you get through this difficult time……. John and Nadia

To Brenda and the Gauthier Family. I will always have fond memories of Ray. May you all fine comfort in knowing that the thoughts and prayers of friends and family are with you in this time of great loss. He will be greatly missed.

Our sincere condolences Brenda and family. I worked many years with Ray at Depot's Academic and Human Resources Sections. Ray was a great guy to work with. Good memories. RIP Ray.

Brenda and Family, our thoughts and daily prayers go out to you and your entire family. Ray was a true gentleman and will be missed by all who knew him.

When we first met Ray in Manitoba, we were quickly drawn to his kind and gentle manner as well as his quiet sense of humour. We will dearly miss his friendship. Sincerest condolences to Brenda and family.

In 1997 upon graduating from Depot, Ray posted me from Depot to Morris, Manitoba. During my cadet staffing interview he told me D Div was a great place to work, and, if I liked fishing, I needed to get myself to northern Manitoba. Ray was right on both accounts.

To Brenda, Danielle and Joanne - on behalf of D Division, please accept our sincerest condolences. Respecfully, Rob

My wife Shirley and I express our most sincerest condolences to Ray’s family. Ray was respected and well liked by the community during his posting to Virden. We have many fond memories of times spent together and his friendship will never be forgotten.

Our thoughts and prayers to Brenda, Danielle, Joanne and families.

My condolences Brenda and family for your loss.

Brenda and family I am so sorry for your loss. I was very saddened to here. If it hadn’t been for Ray I would never have completed the effective presentation course. He literally talked me off the ledge. I still tell that story today. Brenda I know how you feel if you ever want to talk to someone in the sane boat don’t hesitate to reach out.

Ray always came into the Regina Hangar smiling and eager to go.

Sincere sympathies to Brenda and all family members.

My sincere sympathies to Brenda, Danielle and Joanne and family. My family first met Ray when he moved to Virden. He and his family became like members of our family. I fondly remember all of the projects that he and my dad eagerly completed. I remember Ray as a kind, helpful, compassionate man with a great sense of humour. He will be missed by all who knew him.

Lorraine

Brenda, family and friends, so sorry to hear of the passing of Ray. I will always remember Ray with a big smile and a kind word. I would like to extend my sincere condolences to Brenda and his family.

Our sincere condolences Brenda and all family members. We worked many years together at Depot and have fond memories of our police training trip to the Czech Republic. Rest in Peace my friend, you will be remembered by many of us.

Roger

Brenda, our thoughts and prayers go out to you and your entire family. Ray was a great guy, respected by all. Know the entire RCMP family will be there for you.

Our condolences to you Brenda and to everyone who loved your dear Ray, may you find peace and comfort in the memories, with love, Christine & Rick

Our sincerest condolences during this time to Brenda and family. Ray obviously left many with wonderful memories that will be cherished. Sending our heartfelt thoughts during this difficult time. Berni and Wayne

Brenda and family, we are so sorry for your loss. He was an honourable member of great integrity and clearly touched many lives. Your loss will be shared by many. We hope you can find comfort in these very difficult days. Bob and Erin

Golfing with Ray and Brenda at the Sask Police Golf tournament in Nipawin was a blast...from the sand too. Condolences to you Brenda and the extended family.

Brenda and Family,

My thoughts are with you.

Ray and I trained at the same time. Many have remarked on his wonderful smile and friendly demeanour.

It must be a very difficult time as you face retirement and the passing of a loved one almost simultaneously.

Michael Duncan, S/Sgt. (Retired)

I had the pleasure of getting to know Ray while we were both instructors at Depot Division as well during several teaching trips to the United States. Ray was a kind man with a huge heart of gold! Always quick with a tease and a smile, I have such fond memories of him. My thoughts are with Brenda, Danielle, Joanne and the entire Gauthier family during this difficult time.

My wife, Bonnie, and I offer our sincerest condolences to Ray's family and friends upon his passing. I had the good fortune to know Ray at my first posting in Virden. As a rookie straight out of Regina, I could not have been in a better place where I could count on the guidance and support of Ray and the rest of the members there. It is because of Ray and them that I stayed in the force. I will be forever grateful to Ray and the crew. Ray, RIP my brother. I look forward to when I can share another glass of caribou with you when I return to the barracks some day at the end of my ride. God Bless!

Ray was a well known and respected RCMP member and he has left this world too soon. Condolences to Brenda and all family and friends. Rest in Peace Ray.

Brenda and family,

I am truly sorry for your loss. I am grateful I had the chance to meet Ray. He leaves an amazing legacy and we are thankful for his service. We wish you much strength during this difficult period. My thoughts and prayers are with you. Here for you…sincerely Caroline X

I remember Ray’s supportive presence…quiet and observant, comforting and caring. He never needed to be the centre of attention. He had a passion for training, mentoring and developing others. He was so happy to see others succeed and reach their full potential. He was a gentleman and a gentle man. He will be missed, and he will be remembered. My deepest sympathy and love go out to his wife Brenda and his family.

Ray will be missed. He had an inviting smile. Always a great guy for a conversation and laughter.

Ray and Brenda’s kindness, warmth and friendship will always be valued by our family. Ray was an amazing influence on our son and his sage words of wisdom guided him through Dépôt and beyond. I will forever be grateful. Rest peacefully. Luisa, Tom, Amalia and Thomas

Our thoughts and prayers are with Brenda, Danielle, Joanne and families. Ray was always a dependable partner, never questioning but always supporting in his special way. His smile and friendship has and will remain as a constant. Joe and Elaine.

Ray was an immediate friend for all who had the privilege of knowing him. A passing far too soon, but a life remembered for his genuine and very kind soul, making it easy to admire him from the very moment I first met Ray! Wishing you all well during these difficult days, hopefully filled with the fondest memories of Ray that will never be forgotten. Craig

Growing up in Virden I have many fond memories of spending time at the Gauthier home in Virden and Regina.Grief is just love with no place to go. My thoughts and prayers go out to Danielle, Joanne and their entire family.

While Ray was stationed in Virden, I taught his daughters at Goulter School. I, Danielle, and Joanne were supported no matter the activity from science fairs to festivals. May special memories give you strength in the days ahead.

Thank you for everything, Mr.Gauthier. My second Dad growing up in Virden. You’ve inspired me in so many ways and I cannot thank you and your family enough for all the love, protection and concern you had for us as kids. Thanks for your patience and guidance. Thank you for your service.

Amber. ♥️🙏

Myself and many people from Manitoba have known Ray & family since the middle1970's when he was posted in Cranberry Portage, as a new recruit in the RCMP. Many of the members of the RCMP have worked with Ray and his wife Brenda over the years and the friendships remain.

On behalf of the Manitoba RCMP Veterans Association I pass our condolence to Ray's family. Russ Waugh